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Telling Your Story

Telling Your Story

A line of New Yorkers throttles a Greenwich Village block. It's hard to tell where the queue ends, but it's clear that anyone who arrived less than an hour early won't be among the 250 who fit in The Bitter End. The bar once provided a stage for Bill Cosby and Bob Dylan, but now settles for run-of-the-mill singer-songwriters and bands.

 

Occasionally, however, the bar's old magnetism is revived, like with tonight's appearance of "The Moth."There's no celebrity name on the marquee, no up-and-coming band on showcase.Instead, a few names will be drawn from a hat and the winners will come forward to tell true first-person stories.In an age of flashy technologies and star-studded stages, The Moth—real people telling real stories to a live audience—has not only revived the old tradition of raconteuring, but turned it into a cosmopolitan pleasure.

 

The rules stay the same: No notes are allowed, it must be a story with a beginning and an end (no standup routines orrants), it must relate to the night's chosen theme, and (most importantly) it must be true.

 

Why are New Yorkers willing to pay—and stand in line!—for the most basic form of recreation? What is the appeal of hearing strangers talk about themselves? Why are people willing to divulge the intimate details of their lives to people they've never met? Or as Augustine asked in his Confessions: "Why let others overhear my testimony, as if they could treat my symptoms?"

 

The simple answer is because we are"storytelling animals," says Donald Miller. "A hunger for stories is built into our DNA and telling stories creates community."

 

Stories help us make sense of things. This is why so much of Scripture is narrative. This is why Jesus used parables to help his disciples understand the new reality he was inaugurating. "There's no better way to convey a dense packet of information than to tell it in the form of a story. That's what we respond to," Miller said.

 

"The chief role of a Christian is to tell a better story," Donald Miller has repeatedly said, and has now made this the theme of his book, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years. Author Alan Jacobs agrees, "I do not know whether human beings naturally or instinctively make their lives into stories; I only believe that this is something Christians are obliged to do. But we are obliged to do it properly." Christians must know their stories and tell their stories, but they must be good stories.

 

Telling a good story is not always easy, and is not necessarily instinctual. "What people began to learn quickly is that you didn't need to affix a moral because whatever moral is in the story should be revealed within the story. The story carries its message within it. And as a Christian our story has high stakes with battle scars, mountain tops and plenty of failures. In fact, most audiences respond better to honest stories that don't gloss over the mistakes and defeats. God is pretty clear in His Word that He doesn't whitewash our failures but instead uses them for His glory." says Donald Miller.

 

A Christian's story is not just about his or her triumphs, but about his or her failures and Christ's supreme victory over them. If told honestly and artfully, that story possesses the power to spur other tales of transformation while fortifying community. But first, that story must be shared.

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The Power Of Your Story

The following devotional is from Greg Laurie:

One of the most effective tools you have in your evangelistic toolbox is telling your story, your personal testimony about how you came to believe in Jesus.

After a conversation with Jesus at the well, the Samaritan woman—minutes old in the faith—immediately went out and told others. The Bible tells us that "many Samaritans from the village believed in Jesus because the woman had said, 'He told me everything I ever did!' " (John 4:39).

It is the power of a changed life. Use your story, because it is a way to preach to a person without preaching at a person. People don't like to be preached to. Your story is a bridge. You can say, "Let me tell you my story. I didn't always believe these things. Here is what I used to be. Here is the way I used to live. Here is what I used to think. But here is what I heard,and this is how it changed my life." They can argue with a sermon, but they can't argue with your story. They can't argue with what God has done for you. So use that story to build the bridge.

Telling your story is a powerful bridge for the gospel message. It is merely a bridge to tell His story. It is not about you; it is about Him. So when you tell your story, don't glorify or exaggerate your past. Sometimes I have heard people give their testimonies, and the story gets more dramatic with the telling. Sometimes Christians want to make their story more dramatic to be more impressive. Just tell the truth.

Don't boast about what you gave up for God, but about what God gave up for you. We gave up guilt. We gave up judgment. We gave up hell. And in their place, God gave us purpose and meaning and heaven. And remember, it is not about you. It is about Him.

As a teenager, I would hang around a place in Newport Beach called the Balboa Fun Zone. I would lean up against a wall, hair hanging in my eyes (use your imagination there), looking real tough. Christians who walked around and handed out their tracts didn't know what to make of me. They would thrust a pamphlet in my direction and then back off. But in my heart I was saying, "Talk to me. Don't be put off by my tough-guy façade. It is false. I am too proud to say that I need help. I am too proud to say, 'Tell me about Jesus.' "

I wanted someone to engage me. I would take the little tracts the Christians gave me and stuff them in my pocket, but never in the trash. I took everything that everyone gave me, everywhere. I had a drawer for all kinds of religious literature at home, and every now and then, I would pull it out, empty it on my bed, and try to sort through it. I had literature from Christians, Mormons, Jehovah's Witnesses, Hare Krishnas, and more. You name it, I had it. I would look at this stuff and wonder what it all meant. I was looking for someone to show me the way.

Most Christians who have a basic knowledge of the faith could have easily explained the gospel to someone like me. And there is a world full of people out there who are just like I was, waiting for someone to take a risk. They are waiting for someone like you to say, "I will go ahead and give it a go." The worst-case scenario is they will say no. But what if they say yes? How willing are you to step out in faith and be used of Him?

Greg Laurie

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